When someone says being gay is a choice, they must be bisexual. They must have that choice and assume everyone does. Where do they land on the Kinsey scale, I wonder?
I think it is confusing and pointless to ask someone to have sex with someone they don’t find attractive. This seems even more absurd when the person you are being told to be attracted to isn’t even of the gender you find attractive. The only conclusion is that everyone who says being gay is a choice are bisexual.